I wrote, "Want to come over tomorrow night and watch the Mets game? When I turned 14, it was like a switch had been thrown and I became a kind of Walking Dead zombie, only instead of eating brains I just why men view pornography needed to see breasts. I'm saying it's okay, and even good, to have a secret fantasy life.
I'm Happily Married and I Still Watch Porn
Also, we'd love it if you could at least pretend you don't know what's in our browser history—it'll help why men retain our view pornography. Because it's a relatively healthy secretand in marriage, secrets allow us to have separate selves. It's like a friend used to say about not buying ice cream: It's one of the reasons I'm not arguing that you have to be pro-porn.
Even if you don't think porn is cheatingyou may wonder, What about me? Aren't I good enough? Max is a fake name, which I'm using because what Max and I were texting about was porn.